Views of Pankaj Nikam about life, code and everything else...

Each one of us has experienced this ubiquitous experience of the word, compromise . Some of us take it as if its a part of our daily routine, some of them take it to the heart and rest of the people resist it. Whichever category you are falling in, you have to at least experience that word in some way or the other. Whether it may be the bus you just missed by a minute, whether a second of a race or a millisecond of an eye-blink and the whole picture of this world changed in front of you forever! Its strange that we cannot actually control whats happening. In the last post I mentioned that we have to take things as they come, in other words, this is nothing but compromise. Resisting compromises can be good and healthy if it is worth it. Take an example of the word ethics , I know this is a word which has now became extinct as there are only couple of people left who use this word whenever their conscience reminds them of what they should do. I am aware that only few people do care a

Great minds have purposes - others have wishes goes the awesome quote by a great insight of Washington Irving... I always believed that the person with purpose is certainly bigger and greater than the person with wishes. Having a wish and having a purpose are two different sides of the same coin. But you need to know the thin line between purpose and wish. There are numerous things in the world for which you can have a wish. But all your life, you might have only few or may be only one purpose. I agree that each one of us have variety of purposes but above all, our purpose of life is to love each other. We were born with a desire to love and our desire never gets quenched. If we love what we do, we are the happiest person on the earth. When it comes to purpose, our ambition runs side by side, hand in hand to help us reach our ultimate goal or purpose and nothing beats our desire to reach the ultimate goal of life. I believe that the one who can fulfill his / her dream can do wonder

Sometimes in life we have to face the situation as it comes and one can do nothing but just to sit and let and watch it happen. Some of the geniuses stated that we are the creators of our future... but I wont agree to some extent as sometimes in life you have to make compromises. Compromises in friendship, with significant other or with someone close to you - be it anyone. Life gives you challenges and the way you make your choices, determine your actions and ultimately, the destiny. The reaction to the situation is always the important factor and it is the sole condition on which your future is dependent on. Some people say that, "When life gives you lemon, make lemonades" but the thing is that its never that easy to make lemonades with those lemons if we take the practical aspect of it. Life is full of mysteries and never let other people decide what and how to shape your future. Its your life and you need to make constructive decisions which can help you to avoid all the